For the longest time I thought that if you told someone what your fantasy was it wouldn’t come true. I aligned a fantasy much like a birthday wish but there were no candles or cake at the end. Fantasies for me have now evolved to something more inline with a ‘bucket list’…or I guess I could call it my ‘fuck it list’.

Building off of the inaugural blog, I look to my experiences to feed my thoughts. When I asked my primary partner in life if there was anything he wanted me to do in bed, he told me that he had no fantasies and that this was fine. I think I threw up a bit in my mouth that day. How can someone not have fantasies?Impossible! Perhaps it is that his fantasies are so beyond his comfort level that he is unwilling to share, much like a birthday wish.

Fantasies are just that…fantasies. It is your one chance to go where no man/women has gone before! How liberating! Submission! Domination! Anal sex! Threesomes! Clusterfucks! Food! Gadgets! Your neighbour! Your boss! Your neighbour and your boss!!! Sky is the limit! There are some fantasies that may be considered more taboo…golden showers and such but hey! To each their own…I am never one to judge.

I have decided that my fantasies will step away from the cake and become my bucket list…my ‘fuck it list’. I have decided to take this venue to list some of my favourites and encourage you to do the same. List them here or start a blog on your own to list them…

WARNING:
To my actual friends that I see on a daily basis – hope you still respect me in the morning.
To my new found virtual friends – I hope you enjoy and think no less of me…or feel free too, you’ve been warned! ;)
To my Mom & Dad – avert your eyes, this may get messy.

Candy’s Fuck it List of Fantasies:
(in no particular order of preference)

1) Sleep with my hot Director in her office at 2pm today.

2) Threesome with a married couple…I think it would neat to see how they interact.

3) Watch my primary partner have his way with a pretty young blond thing.

4) Threesome with two guys, I want every hole filled just to see if I can!

5) Being pumped from behind while I taste a pretty young thing of my own

6) Dominate a gorgeous strapping stud, leather, cuffs…the works.

7) Give head/have sex with a guy on public transit – like in Risky Business.

8) Two words…Rim Job (I know it is one word but if sounds cooler if you separate the two). Specifically on a guy who said he never would, since you know those are the ones who want it the most.

See…that wasn’t so bad. I am still here, breathing, thinking, laughing, and loving. They are just fantasies and seem pretty tame but it is up to you if want to make them a reality. Life is to short so I plan on it…my Fuck It List.

Now…where’s is the cake?

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